Friday, January 8, 2016

#operationmealplanning

I'm not going to lie, I looked up BHBK (see Allie's post below) on Urban Dictionary and I still have no clue what it stands for.

UPDATE: I just figured it out! Before Husband, Before Kids! Man, I feel like a genius right now.

The task was to do something for me. Believe it or not, I'm sitting here thinking as hard as I can, and I can't even remember what I did last night. I know my husband was coaching basketball and I put the kids to bed on my own. After that ... zombie mode. I watched reruns (you saw her description of me - does Allie know me or what?). It was a quiet evening. I am, however, guilty of having spent some of my evening cleaning up the house and prepping lunches for the next day.


Allie gets it though. Our wifehood and motherhood takes over by times and it can be challenging to find "me" time. That's part of the reason we've started this blog - to give us a no-excuses place to stop, think, feel and write. It'll sometimes be amazing and other times it'll be mindless dribble - we admit that upfront. The truth is, we're busy. Some of it is self imposed and some of it unavoidable.

A big part of what we do is feed our families - we deal with much of the shopping, the meal planning and tackling the allergies.


Most importantly though, we do it all on a budget. One of our #challenges for January is to eat all of the stockpiled food in our respective houses. We're both guilty of buying things because of sales or points promotions and the excess gets a little out of hand sometimes. To make it even more cost effective, we swapped a few things we had excess of. For the rest of the month, we've set low budgets for fresh produce and the rest of our meals will be compiled of our staples, frozen and forgotten meals, and creative odds and ends.

My goals:
- Cook more of my own dried beans. I'd like to eventually stop buying cans altogether.
- Waste less. I've nominated Monday night as eat-the-leftovers night.
- Spend wisely. Buy only what we need for a given timeframe instead of falling prey to sales.

What are your plans of action for #operationmealplanning, Allie?

Thursday, January 7, 2016

The two wives

#challengeaccepted Lindsey!


Jacob and Isaac call her Mom, Mike calls her wife, friends call her Linds and her mother calls her Lindsey. Cook, baker, banker, chauffeur, secretary, referee and maid are also things she is called or as we like to call it, being a wife and mother. Her passion is writing and she has been lucky enough to make a career out of her writing and even spends a few scared minutes of her free time writing (and I am not just talking about grocery lists or honey do lists!). Lindsey loves many things including coffee, reruns of her favorite shows, Pintrest, DIYs and most of all, that magic time between 9:30pm and 11:30pm when she gets uninterrupted sleep on the couch. She laughs loud, loves hard and will do anything for anyone, anytime.

 What can I say about me. Unlike the commercial with the man who is the "most interesting man in the world," I, Allie, am the most uninteresting woman you would ever want to meet [Editor's note from Lindsey: Allie is full of it at this moment. She is fascinating and engaging, hilarious and truly kind. Not to mention oh so interesting]. Pop culture is my thing. Love celebrities, gossip on celebrities, pictures of celebrities....you get the picture. I am the person you turn to during a movie or show and ask "how do I know that person?" and I am quite proud to say 9 times out of 10 I can usually tell you without checking IMDB. I am happily married to a man who didn't know any better when I asked him to marry me (thank god!) as I came out the winner in that. We have two kids who are as different as night and day - my daughter wants to see the world and all that it has to offer and my son....well I am convinced he would live with us until he was 50 if we let him.

Ok Lindsey, you are up. Your challenge, should you choose to accept it, is to spend 30 minutes tonight doing something you want to do. Something that has nothing to do with cooking, cleaning, work, kids, husband, house. Something that you might have done circa 2003. You know that time...BHBK. Psssst...bonus point if you can figure out what BHBK means. You have 12 hours to complete this challenge. #12hourchallenge

Wednesday, January 6, 2016

#challenge accepted

Did you ever see that episode of Friends when the guys bet the girls that they know them better?



That's basically how we operate. We need motivation to get stuff done. Who doesn't like a little friendly competition? Like #laundrychallenge. It's amazing how much easier it is (or how obligated you feel) when there's someone else on the other end of a phone call or text message who is going through the same pain and can commiserate with you when you're folding 85 pairs of socks.

Allie, now it's your turn. Post by tomorrow and introduce us to our loyal followers. #challengeextended